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20. How much can the escort trade and private life be separated? Can an escort have private life?

The private life of an escort can realize in many ways. One of the most typical is when the escort honestly exposes what she does for a living to both the family and friends. The other possible way is when the escort girl completely secretly does escort services. Escort trade is very difficult to reconcile with honest private life. One of the reasons for this is the negative judgment of ordinary people about the job. Since the majority of people think that eskorts are simply prostitutes because of their ignorance, openly work as an escort is very difficult because of the stigmatization and condemnation of society. And this is further worsened by the social and religious structure of the country from which the girl comes from. For example, for an escort girl from a religious or radical community it would be almost impossible to get her family and friends to accept the fact that she works as an escort. A non-honest private life can...

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19.-What kind of requests do escorts meet? – Fetsihes, perversions

If we approach this question from sex customers’ point of view, we'll immediately reveal a secret: some clients visit escort girls, escort boys, shemale escorts, TS escorts, and TV shows because they have some sort of fetish, aberration, perversion, which they cannot satisfy in a traditional relationship. To take an example: it's hard to find a partner for a man who gets excited by being penetrated with a strap-on dildo worn by a woman in a doggy style, who’ll force him to do a blowjob to the same dildo, giving it a deep throat. This isn’t the best thing to do at the beginning of a relationship, is it? We cannot think how many perverted and sexually aberrant people live around us. According to some research, every second person has some kind of fetish or perversion that secretly turns them on. Statistics also shows that only one out of 10 people talks about or practices his or her perversions and aberrations in their relationship....

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-18.

The process of escort work The process of escort work always starts with the prospective customer’s wish to buy a particular escort’s time whom he gets in touch with in some way. This can be done in different modes: he can go on an online escort site to book an escort meeting or look for escort advertisement in local papers and magazines or contact an escort agency. If a prospective sex customer wants to get in touch with an escort through an escort site, he has the opportunity there to filter the possible choices (sex workers) through a smart browser by setting searching criteria e.g. age, sex, sexual orientation or favourite sexual services (COL, OWO, COB, GFE, CIM, COF, Strapon, Analsex, Domina, Penismassage, Fetishes, Deepthroat, 69, Hard Dominatrix). Then, taking the other important information on escorts available on the escort site into account, the sex customer will choose the one that best suits him. These include...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-17.

Types of pimpsBefore outlining the possible types of pimps, it is worth clarifying that today who are called pimps in the context of sex industry, and what sort of behaviour goes with it. There is a wide range of pimps in the world of sex business, regarding their behavior and business models.Pimp is the person, usually a male, who in some form and extent exerts pressure on the escort to make her to work, manages sex business, and provides certain services for her (e.g. protection). A pimp can be a person who is familiar with the escort trade, and help the escort without harming her. These pimps are usually a kind of manager with a good business sense in order to make the sex business as profitable as possible both for him and the escort. As a matter of fact, as it has been said about the types of escorts, not all escorts are able to manage the processes involved in connection with escort work (booking an apartment in a foreign country,...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-16.

Exact types of escortsDefining the types of escorts begins with the escort’s sexual orientation and gender identity. Accordingly, there are heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual or lesbian escorts. Furthermore, as for the gender identity, an escort can be female, male, transsexual (TS), transvestite (TV), ladyboy or shemale escort.Then we can determine whether an escort is independent or pimped. Independent escort means that an escort girl, an escort boy, a TS, a TV escort, shemale or a ladyboy escort does the sex work out of own will, that is, it is completely independent of a second person or a third person who in some way manage, control the escort and dispose her income. Consequently, an escort decides in which the country she will work, what customers she will go to an escort date, and also, it is her that set the price of different sexual service packs. This gives escorts freedom and vision, and she can decide how much and when...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-15.

How long can an escort work in the profession and what impacts will they have to encounter during the escort service?That how long someone can work as an escort, it is influenced by many factors, so we have to approach it from these points of views. The first important factor is how old the sex worker is when she starts working as an escort and what is her purpose, or she does it on her own will or she is forced to work. We have to consider the human type as well. There are those who can easily take the obstacles, stress, trouble, problematic clients, and there are those who can easily get ruined in harsh condition.In other words, on this field of the profession it is difficult to affirm anything about escorts as there is little information on how long an average escort girl is able to work in the sex service industry. And we haven’t even talked about that most of escorts have no intention at all of working in the escort trade for a...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-14.

What do escorts use the money they earn for? The mode of the use of money earned as an escort is fully related to the reason why someone will be a sex worker. Actually, the reason for becoming an escort legitimizes the hundreds of thousands spent. Accordingly, grouping escorts can give an exact answer to this issue.First of all, it is important to be aware that not all escorts keep all the money they earn. In vain laws ban pimpery and brothels, and in vain escorts are independent to act, most of escorts work with the assistance or coercion of a second party in the profession. If an escort works under a pimp’s control, a certain part of her income wil be skimmed and get into the pimp’s pocket. A pimp is often a boyfriend or partner. It's also common to see escorts work in a so-called “hand down house” where sex business takes place. The escort hands down a part of her income to the house owner, which can be up to 60-70%. In...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-13.

How and for what reason do certain countries support escort trade? Dealing with the escort industry falls under controlling prostitution in many countries, ignoring the conceptual differences between them. Apart from that, the issue of the support of escorts is the subject of a global debate around the world. The debate always revolves around human rights, the right to freely sell the body, as well as the organized crime. Human right activists, of course, advocate that in all countries, escorts and prostitutes should be free to pursue sex work.Amnesty International is, for example, one of the world's largest human right defending organizations with more than seven million activists who are ready to stand by escorts and prostitutes. In addition to protecting the rights of escorts, they also provide assistance to those escorts who have become victims of rape, bullying or human trafficking.In addition to human rights defenders, many...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-12.

Why does someone become an escort?Let's admit that the escort work does not belong to the group of occupations about young people dream as their future ambition. The fact that someone becomes an escort is a coincidence of many small and sometimes unfortunate things in adulthood, which can include a childhood trauma, growing up in a bad social environment, or just the mere desire to overcome poverty.If we want to understand why exactly somebody will become an escort then the first thing to look at is the trade itself. Nowadays working in the escort trade is one of the most lucrative jobs. The good earning opportunity is also associated with the fact that an escort girl can gain a great deal of profit in a relatively short time. To illustrate it, let's take the case of an average touring escort (who travels to foreign countries where she does sex work) who, for example, does a week long term in Stockholm and she has been working for a year...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-11.

Who can be an escort?If we approach the question ‘who can be an escort?’ from legal point of view than it has to be said that every female, male, shemale, ladyboy, transgender (TS, TV), Domina person who is over 18 can be an escort, but only in the countries where the local legislation allows it. Regardless of the fact that escorts are not prostitutes, the law regulating prostitution unfortunately treats them as prostitutes. If we take Sweden as a model, according to the 1999 Swedish model, the above persons, that is, escorts can legally take employment in the sex industry.The legal point of view to approach the issue is only one side. There is another side of the profession, in our case, the approach from professional point of view, since it is not only the law that has to be corresponded, but also the profession itself has requirements. Employees have to be competent in carrying out escort service, just like in any other profession,...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-10.

Online escort sitesESCORTS in SWEDENIt's worth talking more about online escort sites as the most popular form of escort advertisement. In my view, the most innovative and beneficial way of escort marketing lays in the structure of a professional site. The first argument to prove it is the easy accessibility.According to the customer's taste, just a few clicks and instantly hundreds of escort girls, less often, Escort Boys, Escort Shemales, Escort Ladyboys, Transvestite, Transsexual and Domina Escorts are at the client’s disposal. With a smart search engine (if an escort site has it) there is further way to filter escorts according to age, race, hair, language, body, breast size, weight, sexual orientation (heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual), perversions, escort favourites (analsex, COL, COF, OWO, COB, breast sex, dominatrix, penis massage, deep throat, fetishes). In addition, the client can get informed about the prizes of different...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-9.

Escort meeting,Escort marketing is basically essential in the escort trade. As escorts neither stand out on the edge of roads like a street walker prostitute and nor advertise their charm in some public brothels or in shop- windows of the red-light district like in Amsterdam, therefore customers have to get to them through some medium. Escort marketing existed even in the ancient times, but not in the form of advertisement, but in the form of reputation. This is one of the reasons why the profession has been downplayed in a sense because today’s media practically is able to sell everything. That the profession is downplayed or dulled-down does not mean a lower quality in the service, that today’s escorts are worse than their ancient colleagues. That is not the case. It rather means that long ago the escorts had to acquire significant literacy for fame, but in contrast, today some well-written lines on an escort profile and a professional photographer...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-8.

Escorts todayWhat may be more difficult than precisely presenting how the world of escorts works is making the difference between prostitutes and escorts understood, as there is an essential as well as conceptual distinction between today’s escorts and prostitutes. Furthermore, it is disputed that due to the characteristics of escorts and the escort industry the profession itself belongs at all to prostitution.According to what the word means, prostitution takes place when a woman prostitutes her body for sexual purposes to a second or even a third party. Until now, it is clear since there is nothing difficult to understand here. There is a pack of sexual service (vaginal, oral, anal, blowjob, handjob) for which a sex client pays a prostitute, who can be a female, male, domina, transvestite or shemale prostitute working on the streets like a hustling whore, or even at luxurious German or Dutch brothels and window. In short, it does...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-7.

The first steps towards modern escort prostitutionThe following centuries did not make any significant changes in the development of escort prostitution until the nineteenth century, when the industrial revolution and its new brilliant inventions had a formative force on the world of escort prostitution. The last centuries, so to say, had problems with prostitution due to the rapidly spreading sexually transmitted diseases. Syphilis produced hundreds of thousands of victims through brothels and from under the skirt of street prostitutes all across Europe.In the new centuries escorts belonged to the elite echelon, and they were considered as luxury items on the sex market. Typically, escorts were the entertainers of noble and gentry groups (civil servants, politicians, and wealthy men) who were happy to appear in cafes, restaurants or at exclusive social gatherings in clubs.Also it happened in the 1900s when the formation of the word ‘call...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-6.

Escorts around the world – geishas and ganicasIt would be a mistake not to mention the most colourful escort (sub) culture, the geishas before discussing how the modern escort industry developed. Geishas actually were escorts, but if we want to be more punctual, they were more than escorts. The meaning of the word signifies a person who is an entertaining artist. Geishas began to be trained in their early years, which meant artistic, literary and musical literacy, as Japanese men who paid for the time of geishas wanted to be fascinated by them. Of course, sexuality was included in the service as it was the integral part of it. In the 1900s geishas would spied for the Japanese government, trying to obtain important information from US military leaders. The espionage of escorts for governments was a well-established strategy across Europe. For example, the former Italian porn actress who was a member of the parliament, called Cicciolina,...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-5.

Escorts’ great returnThe disappearance of escort profession and escort of girls lasted until the renaissance and humanism. The age especially favoured the return of escorts, as the spirit of the age – without the respect for the religion - began to explore the pleasures of the material world.The fine arts and sciences once again become central and what is most important to us: prostitution re-invigorated. While in the previous era (well before the 12th century) prostitution had completely been on the periphery with escorts disappeared from society, in Rome and Venice there were born world-famous brothels. The rise of prostitution, along with escort girls, was largely helped by the Church's tolerance, and that the morality that clutched society became completely loosened. In addition, the Italian city states realized that by taxing prostitution they could earn fabulous income. Another decisive reason why the escorts industry could...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-4.

Why did the trade disappear for a while?The gradual development of the technology and the increasingly central role of religion in society meant the end of escort trade for a while. (We will later see how these processes have a drastic impact on the profession as well as on prostitution.) The flourishing prostitution and the glory of the ancient escorts began to fade away with the end of the Greek culture. This began approx. in 800 BC when the most important civilizations (Greek, Egyptian) started to fall. A new social structure began to develop whose main reasons are the invasion of sea people with advanced weapons, the Persian conquests, and then, after the death of Alexander the Great, the collapse of the Hellenistic society, leaving way for the new great religious movement, Christianity. Continuous wars eradicated Greek literacy, destroyed most of the temples, and along with Greek culture, prostitution, brothels and escorts were...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-3.

The possible circumstances of the formation of escort trade in the pastIn the past, the formation of escort trade was due to women hoping to get out of the dark pit of prostitution. For this reason, ingenious escorts needed more than just a good business sense and sensitivity to perceive the market gap. As it has been already mentioned above, the escorts of the past were wise, intellectual and educated women, who became an escort in order to achieve success in their lives. From this point of view, there is some similarity between today and ancient escorts, with the major difference that today the profession no longer requires the wide knowledge that ancient escorts used to have. However, the purpose of becoming an escort is similar: finding the way out of poverty, accumulating material goods, acquiring a carefree life.Looking back on this again it has to be emphasized that being an escort in the past was a kind of special and privileged...

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The Big Book of Escort Trade-2.

Who the escorts wereContrary to escorts today, escort girls in the ancient times, apart from being attractive, had to meet several criteria, such as being witty, educated, and familiar with contemporary politics. For this reason, the ancient escorts were highly esteemed and respected as well as glorified for their beauty and intellectual qualities in poems.  Men would yearn for escorts, and they almost competed to win the favour of escorts. Yes, in ancient times, buying escort service was a privilege for which men had to compete by buying a lot of presents to impress the sex worker even before they would agree to meet. And if the escort was willing to meet the client it was not for sure that she would give her charm to the buyer. Escorts used to have a big role in political life as well. They were influential, with having a lot of well-known people of importance in their circle of friends, so clients would often pay a visit...

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