Do nymphomaniacs want to be professional escorts at all?
Earlier we have
talked about what kind of personality is needed to be able to become a good
escort. It is too complex to say unequivocally that the main requirement of the
escort trade is only the love of sex - given the fact that many escort girls
are only victims of circumstances, being drifted into the situation where they
are forced to provide sexual services for money. They are involved in the
escort profession not because of the pleasure of sex. There are some who have
started doing escort services out of their own will, because they have realized
the hopelessness of their (financial) situation, but, to tell the truth, they
are not really into sex. There also must be some exceptions when someone loves
having sex and she is an escort as well, but the two do not go hand in hand.
There are a lot of people who are obsessed with sex, however they do not take
escort profession because they are disgusted by the way society generally
treats escorts and escort profession. They simply cannot bear the disdain and
degradation that pervades this profession. Not to mention the way an escort
needs to live to avoid getting unfolded how they make their livelihood. From
this point of view, one must also have the courage to choose to be a sexual
service provider, if there are escorts at all with dedication and commitment to
the escort trade.
Nymphomaniac is
a sex-dependent, addicted woman. She depends on sex as other kinds of addicted
people to alcohol, smoking or heroin. Usually addiction develops due to the
abnormal development of the brain and often occurs as ancillary to mental
disorder. Starting from this point, a nymphomaniac would probably not be able
to perform well at any workplace, but probably as an escort either- of course,
apart from her willingness to have sex. However, we have already rejected the
claim according to which the essence of a good escort lies only in the love of
sex. Especially if the person is otherwise mentally insane, it is rather
doubtful that there would be anyone who would like to make love with a
half-crazy woman, who is very likely to intent only on satisfying her own
sexual needs and not to be too interested in the other, which is not a negligible factor in
this profession. Of course, independently of what was said, a nymphomaniac
might as well think of taking employment in escort trade if she loves sex so much.
As any illness has phases, nymphomania might have as well, and if it is
accompanied with a milder version of madness, it is possible to combine the
nymphomania and the escort profession in a working framework.
But if the
question has already been posed whether the love of sex is enough to become an
escort, then we might ask as well that the love of sex is necessary at all to
make a really good escort? Reversing the question: what makes an escort
popular? Is it because her body is desirable, or because she has a charming
aura, or perhaps because she subordinates herself to the customer's every
desire being not afraid to fulfil them? Or is it because she is willing to
humiliate herself to make her client feel good? Or on the contrary, is it
because she has some sort of standing and is resolved, yet she is a gentle
feminine, or because she is romantic and caring instead of sexual beast? But it
may be that she has all these features together, depending on what is needed of
her. So, besides the love of sex - if it exists – the diversity of personality
is also important in an escort. However, this may require acting skills to be
able to present her current role.