Is it possible
to get on without it as a born escort in the profession?
Suppose there
was an escort girl who loves to have sex - she doesn't even know why, whether
because of the sex act itself or the lack of self-confidence - as she uses sex
to gain self-affirmation - but she is shy and prude in bed. These two
personality qualities are not likely to be beneficial in the escort profession,
as she meets with new and new sex-clients every day, before whom she will need
to strip off her inhibitions to perform well in satisfying sexual desires. After
all, the client is most likely not to be reserved or a restrained person
regarding his sexual desires, so he won’t just get over the sexual act, but on
the contrary, he will need lot of experience given by the escort - and here I
would refer to the differences between sex and good sex, as well as the
difference between escort and good escort, which differences can be rather
significant. In this situation, it will probably not be enough for the escort
to get over the sex act. And what if the escort did not feel like having sex at
all for any reason? It is well known that women have a very emotional attitude
to sexuality, which may cause them to be hesitant to get undressed in the
company of a complete stranger. But this is not just an extreme case, because it
is inevitable for any escort to serve a sex client who is not at all attractive
or even repulsive for her. For example, the sex client is fat, hairy, and
stinky. If such a man finds the escort with his perversions, there will
certainly be a need for some strategy to survive the escort meetings and to
enable herself even to pretend to enjoy it. The work of an escort requires that
she show a positive mirror in every situation and moment, or what sex clients
long for – even if it is unexpressed. Also, if an escort really intends to be a
good escort, she should not only know what role to play, but also how to play
the current role well enough to be credible.
It often occurs
that it is not the most important for an escort to hide her own impressions –
e.g. disgust - but to make sex customers believe she is open and interested in
them. That is, it is not enough merely to passively avoid showing disgust, but
he has to be made to believe by acting that the escort is really interested in
him. It may happen that the sex client himself is being in a bad mood, being
hurt and, is not especially after sexual experience, just for some
understanding and consolation. In this case, if the escort wants to get a good
sum of money, she has to play or imitate to be interested in the story. She has
to be able to suggest to her client that she is sincerely interested in him and
wants to care for him after which sex will be even more intimate, which the sex
client will hopefully appreciate with nice sum of money.
Based on all of
this, I can easily imagine a good escort being able to act out the requested
role of the many that is suitable to the situation in order to appear as
authentic lover as possible. Without these acting abilities, it can be
difficult to succeed in the escort profession, as an escort can find herself in
lots of types of situation with many types of sex clients, and if she is not
able to choose and play roles then her sex clientele can easily shrink.