What makes it obvious that someone is a true-born escort?

sweet but psycho (@sweet-but-psycho) · · 0 · 0

Who can be successful in escort career, e.g. who naturally emanates eroticism or is it an acquirable skill? In case of acquirement, is there chance for success and is the success just limited?  

We would not be wrong to assume that people who choose to be escort are full of eroticism, passion and emanate sexual attraction. The assumption is correct, because if we look at the surface, these qualities are very closely related to the sexual service industry - including the porn industry. The work of escort is to seduce sex clients and then to satisfy their sexual desires at the possible highest professional level. Of course, in order to have a man turned on a woman, a kind of sexual attraction has to be created between the parties, which should be real as for the part of sex-client, while it is usually pretended by escorts. The pretended attraction and affection expressed to sex-client requires good acting qualities to make escort credible, however, sex clients do not really deal with the fact whether what an escort does is a theatrical performance or not. But what about the sexual attraction that an escort herself/himself has to emanate, and by which a potential sex-client can get under the spell so much that he would want to use the escort service? It should be kept in mind that the competition on the sex market is really intense, so sooner or later escorts themselves have to be able to realize that without seduction and charm they can easily lose business opportunities. But how important is it to have attraction and charm for sex workers? Is it possible to compensate the lack or low level of these qualities with something else? Suppose an escort is exceptionally good at sex from a technical point of view, but if escorts do not have enough physical attraction and charm to call sex-customers attention, will they be able to make sex-clients pay intercourse with them at all?

In fact, it is very subjective to judge the attraction itself. However, if there are "classic beauties" who have innate external qualities and traits that generally raise the human sense of beauty - both men and women - then there may be "classic attraction" as well that carries such internal qualities, which usually appeal to other people. With these two examples, I meant to illustrate that there is not only physical beauty in the classical sense, but there may be another classic beauty in terms of the inner, personal qualities too. The two can go hand in hand, but not exclusively – as it is not an unusual experience that attraction lasts until the beautiful person starts to speak. It is quite elusive to identify where this inner "beauty" comes from. What is a fact that an escort exerting attraction from her personality might have some advantages in sex career compared to those who have to acquire these inner qualities in some way, if it can be learned at all. It is for sure that certain gestures and mimicry can be practiced to make escort’s vibe more attractive. These practical things can help escorts a lot when they are labouring to get sex-clients. I have used the word ‘labour’ because escorts who learned the exert attraction must be constantly aware of how they are behaving and how this behaviour affects sex-clients. This requires not little intellectual work, and this may potentially distract attention from other things that are also important for the success of sexual service. And to bring the two together, it will take escorts some time, but after a while, it is going to have a good effect on their sex business.

I doubt that success can be reached only by naturally attractive escorts, though I admit that they are able to build a career in sex business more easily than those escorts who first have to acquire how to be attractive both physically and personally and how to do it instinctively.



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