The need for sense of purpose in escort trade

sweet but psycho (@sweet-but-psycho) · · 0 · 0

 Is it possible for an escort to achieve results by training for sex work, or is it necessary to have sense of purpose to succeed in the profession? So, if a born-to-be escort has no sense of purpose then she has qualities and skills in vain, because won’t she be able to make use of them?

In general, achieving success in work requires more than just skills and doing the work itself. In vain someone has skills for a profession or anything if she or he refuses to use as well as to develop them, which will result in losing their "talent". Besides, it is has to be learned how to cash in on skills and qualities. An escort who wants to be good at the profession should know how to use her abilities. To know this, though, she has to be familiar with escort profession, with its pitfalls and loopholes. It is a fact that in case of the absence of work experience, an escort will not be able to fully understand the mysteries of the sexual service industry. As with everything, this also has the phases of learning that must be gone through by any escort to be able to adjust to it properly. However, an escort has the necessary skills in vain, if she has no sense of purpose in the trade, she will not develop self-control and endurance for learning or gaining experience. As a result, if there are no goals for the escort to reach regarding her career, then her work will be under motivated, therefore she will miss the drive for success.

Of course, this profession also has the practical part that can be learned and acquired with enough diligence. The techniques including the capability of acting and carrying out sexual acts can be and are to be developed, however, in order to do so it requires inner urge and determination. The hypothesis has already been raised that a career in sexual service does not really require extravagant qualities, but rather the willingness to develop relevant skills and use them during work. It may occur that someone could make a good escort, but she or he does not even think of trying themselves in the sex industry. Instead, they would like to be a psychologist because they know people very well and like analysing personalities. Also, she or he is emphatic enough to listen to people. She or he likes to help and do others’ heart good etc. These are all personality features, I believe, that a good escort possesses as well, however, in spite of the similarities of the two characters, they do a different career. There must be something that makes distinction between them.  

Who would purposefully like to be an escort loves sex, men and eroticism, sees her or his future in this profession makes effort to be good, because she or he wants to do it better and better to get a better stand in life. It may also be just a coincidence that she or he experienced prostitution and could experience during career what others have never done in life. Starting from this experience, she or he finally decided to stay in the profession and try their luck here to build a career. If an escort has built up a vision for the career, then it can be assumed that she or he is so purposeful to reach their goal, even step by step. This sort of escort usually has a well-conceived business plan that can bring her or him closer to their success. This purposefulness guides them to accept failures and help progress. Without this the escort will be able to judge neither failures with sufficient self-criticism nor successes, which will lead to stagnation in business as she/he won’t be able to realize and then accept what to change in her/his work attitude in order to become successful. Mechanic and insipid escort service cannot be expected to contribute to professional development.


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