I have brought a little BDSM!
It’s difficult to talk about something that has unpleasant truth in it because it can disgust others. Those who have the sexual needs with the limitation of extremities in mere changing the sexual positions will never comprehend and accept the fact that pleasure can come from inordinate sexual practices as well. Well now I would rather address those who may have the dirty fantasy, but they don’t dare to gratify it or don’t have partner to do with.
It seems a difficult matter. It’s certainly difficult to get someone right away to adapt extreme bondage techniques or sometimes big punch and swear words into sexual customs so that the sexual act stays in normal frames. If there is broad term, this is where it is to apply on sexual action. Many times it is not at all about sexual intercourse but humiliation, the toleration of humiliation or its adoration of humiliation! The pleasure of pain and the pleasure of causing pain. Domination and slavery. This is a world of big opposition.
Where can we do it? It’s a good question because it often makes a problem to many people. Of course not all of the people have a properly equipped BDSM special room in the cellar. This genre requires special equipments. These are such stuffs that can’t be purchased during an average shopping at weekend or there are, for example, no community clubs where you can acquire the knowledge how to make them. Serious equipments, professional handicraft products are very rare and available on horrific prices. I am not exactly thinking of anal-hook, nipple-clips or scourge because they can be ordered anywhere on the Internet. But immovable tools, cages, fuck-machines, spreader frames and different creative gadgets almost similar to medieval torture tools normally used by professionals are hard to purchase, which can be frequently seen in porn movies. These of course can be hand-made and there are well furnished BDSM studios where romantic couples are welcome.
There are fanatics and there are curious and experimental people. I don’t know if one has to be born to do this or the sexual discontent leads people to try and use BDSM. It’s a fact that many people seem to prefer it. Somewhere inside the personality something must have happened, maybe gone wrong that someone should enjoy spitting on the face, scourging, punching in the face and making women immovable with sundry tools while they are gulping testicles in a totally defenceless position. This cannot be normal, still is a way of expression of the sexual self or a mode of reliving stress and tension. Everyone wants to get rid of it, but many cannot or do not dare to send forth.
Today BDSM is a diversified genre, changed a lot from its original form. It has mixed up with lots of other styles of sexual practices and attitudes. It has not any more represented the system and the aesthetic implementation of the loop but the application of many more sexual genres. Here comes into view the physical involvement, that is to say violence e.g. punching, coercion, obsessive intercourse, humiliation, the tolerance of humiliation etc. The most important innovation in BDSM recently is that not only women but men can be tortured as well.
It can thank its popularity to changing needs as well as the media. The renewing trends of the porn industry, adjusted to the market needs, managed to give one form to thousands of styles, which is called BDSM. I am looking for the answer why it is worth promoting and passing this genre for people to try it. I want to prove that it is more than mere brutality and barbarity. In the next chapter I am going to give you a taste of what you would miss if you did not try it out.
WHY DO YOU NEED BDSM?
1. Because there is more in the unknown than you would think
In order to get to know yourself, you need to forget your prudishness. You must give way to express your desires. Just remember the nights when you and your partner got stuck at a certain (low) level in sexual intercourse. You didn’t dare to go further because you were afraid of getting excessive but you felt deep inside that you need much more than what you were doing. You need more than a relaxed pensioner sexual life because you have changed during the long and monotonous years. You need a partner to do this but if you don’t do anything to gratify your altered desires, you will suppress them. This is going to be a major problem in your life which sooner or later becomes a cancerous part of your personal life. Just feel free to taste the forbidden, be brave to make experiments and you will see a balanced man looking at you from the mirror.
2. Because you can do what you want with your servant
Well I have made a little diversion in the topic because I have started to bombard you with encouraging words just before and now I am trying to prove why it is good to humiliate someone and do whatever you want with her/him. You need a partner for this game. If you just keep experimenting by the help of purchased sexual service, that is with prostitutes or escort it may require lots of money, but you can also find some partners who you can explore the world of BDSM with. I don’t believe those who say they wouldn’t touch a woman in an aggressive, offensive way or they wouldn’t hit a man to express sexual attraction.
I need to put down quickly BDSM is not about maltreatment but rather the sophisticated, artistic forms of violence that don’t breach the laws.
So you can be the lord, it is you that tell the servant what to do, who is obedient in everything requested by your desire. If once you have tasted the delectation of sexual power I guarantee you won’t forget about it anymore.
Experiments, trying out new things always do good to the worn relationships. It is not always a good solution to ditch your partner because something got tired during the years spent together. This is also a form of relieving stress that directs the useless quarrels toward the direction of new sexual behaviour that can solve relationship problems. Make your thoughts happen, tie her/him up, torture her/him a bit and treat her/him as a slave, a sexual servant, but satisfy her/him as a queen or king. Make video records and show the world them to please others too!
3. Because the sex and porn industry loves it
Yes! It is like a career! A skilled BDSM master is a rarity, so if you are good at it, you will belong to the most popular stars. Build your own BDSM studio then upload the stuff onto the Internet. If you make a god quality, producers will contact you.
It’s a profitable business because good quality stuff is rarely available.
If you don’t want to be a master of this genre but are daring, so you can go the furthest, try yourself out among actresses. You can be successful in this profession and financially it’s worth the trouble. This is also true if we take prostitution as an example. There are very few daring chicks but there are lots of those who would gratify their dirty fantasies. Apply at different studios or run your own business. You will see you will make a lot of money as well as have part in great pleasures.
4. You will reach a higher emotional and sexual level with your partner
Trust, tolerance and sincerity. Ask yourself how many of them you have. If you are looking for ways to get to know your partner and gain her complete trust, BDSM will show where to go. It can be a game as well as way to get self-knowledge. This is the path towards happiness that makes you open and tolerant. You will get to know your partner’s secret desires and you will accept what she is like. Your sexual life will reach a higher dimension and you will get rid of common tensions. A deeper relationship will develop between you that can resist the problems of the future.
5. Because you like being humiliated and tortures
You need a password that stops everything
Try to make a sort of password that can stop everything. This is all what you have to do and everything can go. Take the nipple-clips, the strap-on dildo, scourges, handcuffs and tie some strong knots and the fan can begin. Be part of the game, play your role, let the pain overcome you, be given over to the act. You will experience euphoric feelings that are available only by doing BDSM. You can be dominant or servant or whatever that would scandalize others in normal life. Feel free to punch, just shag your defenceless partner to multiple orgasms. If necessary, strap on a huge dildo and keep using it until your partner begs for freedom.
Possess and dominate because this is what everyone is dreaming about secretly!