A good escort
knows what her sex client wants, even if he does not talk about it. That's why
he goes to visit an escort, that is, not to have to explain things
unnecessarily, just to do and enjoy it. Of course, surprises may occur during
the first escort meeting. The profession itself also involves escorting and
sexually servicing men with unimaginable perversions. If she wants to be
successful with sex clients and expects to spread her good reputation, she also
has to expect that the higher her willingness to do different sexual services,
the wider is the range of clients who might turn up. In the course of her
career, the question must arise in the escort whether how long it is worth
doing the job, where is the limit of her comfort zone beyond which she has to
satisfy sex clients? When does it become self-surrender? Some people think that
escort profession goes together with it. Unknown men attend escort meetings to
live up to sexual desires that they cannot enjoy in traditional relationships.
They are able to pay for it too, not regretting the money. So, in return, can
the escort feel so obliged that she goes beyond her moral comfort sphere by
doing anything to sex clients, leaving behind her own inhibitions? This is just
a very tight confine. These sexual stimulus thresholds are at least as
subjective as the attraction that awakens sexual desire.
In fact, it is a
misconception that if an escort performs well to fulfil the sexual desires of
her sex client, she does so because she is subordinated to the sex client. This
is not the case, since there is a mutual agreement between the parties laid
down in oral consensus and determined in cash. The sex client pays the escort
to spend his time with her, in case of mutual sympathy to satisfy him, which is
consented by the escort in the oral business deal. The escort will do what she
has offered for the money and what the sex client has accepted. This makes this
relationship a co-ordinated relationship. The sex client does not get sex
without money, and the escort does not get money without providing sexual
service. This is pretty much the case. Otherwise, the sex client will look for
another escort. Obviously, the choice is wide for both escort and sex client.
What the escort does to keep her client is up to her. She is likely to be able
to judge how far she will go. If she has said no to something, she may still be
a very good escort and may have techniques to carry out specific favourite
sexual services that are almost unparalleled. It may even happen that this
conscious consideration of what the escort does for the client and where she
stops suggests a kind of determination that makes the escort even more
attractive.
Depending on
what kind of role play they play during sex, the escort can naturally make it
felt for the client that she is subordinated to him. This is not so difficult
to play, because it is basically in the nature of femininity that women are
weaker, more vulnerable than men, etc. The extent of subordination can
sometimes make sex even more exciting. There are, of course, also sex clients
who prefer to be in a subordinate role than vice versa. Certain types of
escorts are also prepared for this role and if sex clients want they will act
out the dominatrix role.