What
makes a perfect whore become a perfect escort? Does s/he only give physical
pleasure or is s/he able to act as a companion (e.g. girlfriend, wife, someone
to talk to, who is easy to appear with)
As already
mentioned, escorts are not only specialized in selling sexual services, but
primarily in offering their time to buy. If a customer pays an escort for
her/his time, it does not necessarily involve sexual activity at the end of the
meeting. Sex is an option only if escort and client agree to have sexual
intercourse. It is important to lay down this because escort - given that she
or he is not a prostitute in the strict sense of the word - does not promise a
clear sexual service. Sex is just a possible outcome of escort meeting.
Although customer pays, but he must also be aware that he does not buy sex but
the time of escort, so if the escort does not agree to have sex then she or he
cannot be held accountable. It's a bit like a simple date. Woman and man meet,
talk, try to get to know each other and if they like each other, there will be
more dating. Sex, around which the man's mind rotates during the first few
encounters, is still waiting to happen, as women are usually not willing to
have sexual intercourse on the first couple of rendezvous. Women need more time
to tune on sex, usually after having seen men's efforts to court. Men need
patience and perseverance to do this. Well, if one meets an escort, then mutual
sympathy is also important, just in real life, however, gaining some confidence
in the woman is far quicker process. Both parties know that if everything goes
well at the end of the date, there will be sex. But maybe this little interlude
before sex is what makes escort-client relationship more lifelike and exciting
than a simple prostitute-client interaction. There are clients who specifically
demand that escorts behave like a girlfriend during escort meeting. With other
words, this client is not only interested in sex, but rather in the escort as a
person, as a companion. A good escort should also be prepared for such
situations. The scale of escort service is very wide and goes far beyond sex.
Escort offers client time spent together and how they will spend it depends on
the sympathy of the two. Those escorts who are able to function as intelligent
partners in conversation, in addition to sexual services, can fill in their
service time more diversely and increase their clientele.
It is up to
client's choice what role an escort has to perform in order to render a
satisfying escort meeting. It may happen that a client wants escort to be a
partner at an event, but this also requires that the escort has to have some
intellect. With this part of her escort service, she gives the customer a
favour by making him appear intellectual in front of his business partners. An
escort with good command of languages enjoys popularity among clients from
different countries. It is not only that she can reach more clients, but her or
his extra skill also increases the intellectuality that makes them even more
attractive. Someone just needs rough sex and does not want to talk, just to
gratify the perversions that he might be hiding from his wife. There are
clients who long for an intimate being together and escape from their
loneliness when they pay for escort's time. This solitude is not always solved
by tenderness or intimacy. There are those who prefer a good conversation and
exchange of ideas. In each case, escort’s routine based on the professional experience
is required. And this routine will determine the success rate of escort
meetings. The more clients an escort had to deal with, the better at reading
characters she or he must become. Escorts know their sex clients well, because
there are such coming-outs at escort meetings that even the client's potential
partner, e.g. his wife, could not have experienced yet. Under coming out sexual
desires are meant, and this is so intimate that the client confuses the roles
and the escort suddenly finds herself/himself in the situation of making the
most of the meeting as a companion or wife. The perfect escort must therefore
have a set of human skills that primarily and exclusively do not belong to the
profession. This is, for instance, the understanding of human nature, which is
useful in any other profession, but also in life. It can be developed and
learned just as sexual techniques, but first of all, its importance has to be
recognized. Being an escort is a complex profession, which is why the one can
become the most successful escort who understands this complexity, knows her or
his own abilities and is determined enough to practice and improve.