BDSM (the acronym of the words Bondage & Discipline (B & D)
Domination & Submission (D & S), Sadism and Masochism (S & M) is
the collective name of a complex behaviour and sexual practices on the list of
favourite escort services which provides clients sexual satisfaction not only
through sexual intercourse but through playing the subordinate role in the BDSM
play led by a mistress or mister by giving instructions, which, depending on
style requested by clients, can be sadomasochism, bondage-discipline, dominance
-submission or a combination of all of these mentioned, making up a full BDSM
séance.
In BDSM play there is an active player who is the mister or mistress
of the séance, and there is a passive character who is the subordinate servant,
who has to implement the dominant party’s orders. During BDSM play sexual
gratification is not unidirectional. Pleasure can be had by acting out
dominatrix role, the torture (sadism), humiliation and instruction of the
subordinated party. On the other hand, pleasure can be achieved by acting out
the slave role, which may be accompanied by different fetishes (foot fetish,
leather clothes fetish, bondage) and pleasure towards pain (masochism). Sexual
intercourse may also occur between client and escort during BDSM play, but it
also happens that sex is not the part of the kinky game. Sexual excitement can
be triggered merely by verbal communication, touching and caressing some
objects (tools, clothing, boots etc.) or body parts.
Clients can play both the role of subordinate or superordinate in
the escort business.
We can affirm that BDSM is a special favourite escort service, which
requires an understanding of the forms of BDSM (if the escort is the dominant
party), and of the instruments of torture. Besides, it needs interpersonal
skills to manage the play by giving commands and directions, and escorts also
should be able to know the methods of disciplining clients and how to dominate
them to gain respect.
As noted above, BDSM has many forms (which will be discussed each),
so if a client chooses the right escorts to his desires based on his individual
sexual orientation, perversions and fetishes, he can specify in advance how the
BDSM play will have to be conducted.
For example, bondage is part of the BDSM game, so if the client
specifically longs for pinioning the escort and doing anal or oral sex with
her, of course, he can do it without the involvement other actions of BDSM such
as sadomacho scenes. Of course, the client can get informed on escort sites
about what actions BDSM covers with each escort, indicating what extent of BDSM
play they are willing to do after the escort meeting (e.g. full BDSM or just
certain parts of it, such as bondage and domination).
Those clients seeking the extreme or
professional version of BDSM play have the opportunity of using specifically
furnished BDSM studios or looking up escort sites that are specialized in
advertising experienced and specialized escorts offering BDSM services.