Saviour complex

skywalker · 2 replies ·
This complex is said to often turn up in sex-buyers' attitude towards sex-workers but what is it exactly? Simply speaking, it's the need to “rescue” a woman we think needs saving. The idea that she's in bad phase of life, forced into sex work to survive, and that somehow, by stepping in, we’re offering her a way out. Have you ever felt it, punter colleagues? You must be lying if you say you haven't. But let’s be real: taking care of a provider isn’t saving her—it’s making her your sugar baby, another direction of vulnerability. And if that’s the arrangement both parties agree on, fine. But we have to accept that not every woman wants to be saved, no matter how deep in our feelings we get. Yes, and I’ve already mentioned the problem: feelings, emotions, and their binding consequences, and this is what a sex worker doesn’t look for in the trade, with other words they don’t really want to get saved from this way of life at all. Am I not mistaken about it?
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