The importance of sex, and factors affecting sex
In the previous chapters sex was shown in historical context,
arriving at the current concept of sex. There were words about the sex and
joint industries and people with perverted sexual tendencies.
Except for the distorted forms of sex, it cannot be emphasised
enough that sex is indispensable part of a healthy, balanced life. Apart from
the fact that today sex has no longer a sacred role in human relationship than
it used to, still there are people who try to live through the whole intimacy
of sex, trying to make sexual intercourse be about love and not just fuck.
There is still a minority for whom losing virginity is an important moment in
life.
The sexual revolution of modern society, fortunately has given us
freedom of sex and we do not have to feel ashamed if we had more sex partners
in life. And we have a choice of who to have sex with because laws protect us
from forced sex with others. Unfortunately, it is not the case in other parts
of the world. Forced marriage is still common in major societies (India,
Myanmar, Arabic countries) and there are religious groups (Mormons), where
member are allowed to date and marry only within the community.
Libido
and hormones
The sex-related healthy lifestyle - what everyone wants – has a
quite a number of conditions to be met. It's the most important to have enough
libido. Libido is influenced and formed by thousands and thousands of things. We
all know the feeling when the libido is skyrocketing, and we cannot do anything
but satisfy the desire somehow. It can be done by masturbation, spousal sex or
paid sex with an escort girl. Libido is regulated by hormones. When there is
some problem with hormone secretion, it affects libido as well. For example,
the female contraceptive pill, which otherwise completely changes the female
hormonal balance, may have a side effect that decreases libido. It’s a bit
comical because a woman takes birth control pills to enjoy sex without
consequences, and this is why sex will be less intense after a while. The
libido level may decrease due to serious psychological problems, stress,
thyroid gland function, low testosterone and oestrogen levels, lifestyle (poor
diet, booze, and drugs), depression, old age etc. As we can see, a healthy life
and a healthy sex are in relation with each other, one cannot function without
the other.
The
change of living conditions in sex
The change in living conditions can change sexual habits. A good
example is when someone goes to prison for long years where he can develop
homosexual tendencies after a while though he is heterosexual. Of course, sex
can be a tool in prison, with which certain goods can be obtained (blowjob for
cigarettes), but it also can be a status symbol, which designates the alpha
male. We heard juicy gay stories from our grandfathers in the army during the
big wars or from boarding schools and fraternity houses, not talking about
priests who will be totally perverted due to celibacy and begin to have sex
with children.
Sex, in all respects, shapes human, their mind and how their life
goes. If sex is too much or too little,
that’s a reason, but the lack of sex also has its consequences.
For
whom is sex more important?
And to whom is sex more important? Women or men? According to women,
it is as important to them as to men. Men claim the opposite. Just in case, I
checked it out. According to statistics, most women are more affectionate
therefore they remain faithful even without regular sex. For men it is the
opposite. Men tend to have a sexual affair if their sexual life is not
satisfying in relationship. As for single women and men, women are better at
doing without sex than men.
How to
fix sex-problems
The sex-related problems can be treated the same way as other
diseases. The mentioned aphrodisiacs and potency enhancers have their
counterpart: desire reducers. For example, it was what Michael took when he
wanted to stop himself screwing more children. Officially, of course, there are
sexual psychologists who treat sexual dysfunction, traumas, aberrations and
sexual disorders. A sexologist’s responsibility is to study and explain sex and
its issues. A sexual therapeutics gives help to couples if something goes wrong
in their sexual lives.