Lack of sex, repression of
sexual desires, compromises in sex
We have talked about sex in marriage, sex in unmarried relationship
and in general, how sex works in modern liberal societies. But what about the
importance of sex? I mean excessive sex, or lack of sex, and the problems
ensuing from lack of sex.
It has been already mentioned in the context of relationship that
there are relations between men and women that are not necessarily based on
sex. But what if a man was longing for a bit of BDSM play and dominatrix
experience, but the other party is not open to this kind of sexual perversion,
so it's left out of their sexual life. What is then? It is likely nothing
happens, because when the pair came together, the relationship was not built
just on sex, but also on other values. The man's perverted sexual fantasies
probably won’t ruin the relationship. However, apart from kinky sexual
tendencies, sex must be practiced in a relationship, even if it is limited.