The escort
quality has already been examined from many points of views, that is, what are
the things indispensable to succeed in the profession, and what are those that
have a negative effect on escort performance. In this chapter I am going to
summarize the qualities and skills that have negative or positive impact on the
quality of escort work.
First of all,
let’s list the factors that help to achieve success. When we are going through
the process of sex business, let’s first observe what is needed for an escort
to get sex clients. What is the first thing that calls a sex client’s
attention? Surely, it is the pretty look. Of course, we have already discussed
this, that how subjective beauty is, and there is classic and special beauty.
Also, there is the vibe of personality, which can be engaging or repulsive.
This works with the first impression, as it does with the list of escort's
favourite sexual services, which provides information about the skills and
talent of escort. Selection takes place, and then the meeting does. And here's
the real part of the process. Here is where the escort has to be focused in
order to be able to render a good customized sex service to sex client. Of
course it varies who needs what not just in sex but during the time spent
together. There are those who just want sex, which is maybe the easier case, as
there is no need for communication, escorts do not have to show anything from
themselves, and neither do they have to act out what is expected by sex client.
However, if an escort is having a more complex sex client, she/he will need to
read character and use empathy to be able to tune in on the sex client. To be
able to do it, it is good if an escort has enough experience and social
sensitivity. If she/he has them, the escort can guess the sex client's desires
more easily. Also, there is need for a lot of acceptance and patience, since in
most cases escorts do not serve sex clients who they like. In this case, an
escort wants to keep sex client, she/he has to accept the client's otherness
and be interested in who really needs it. Without proper professional humility
this will not work. Of course, it does good to an escort’s reputation, if
she/he can function not only as a sex partner, but also as a conversational
companion and has the intelligence to do so. Last but not least, the more
languages an escort speaks, the more nationality she/he will be able to
understand, and it has already made a huge advance towards expanding its sex
clientele, not only to get new clients but to make clients become a regular.
Many businessmen may be impressed by the fact that the escort is also well
versed in business, as s/he is a business (wo)man, so there is already
something in common to talk about, which is big enough to spend time on for
long. Besides, an escort can be quite respected by sex client if he knows he is
serviced by an intelligent, smart, independent, masculine woman, which is the
embodiment of today's female ideal.
Now let's move
on to the other side, that is, things that degrade escort prostitutes.
Obviously, I would mention first the counterparts of positive factors, such as
social disinterest, that is, no interest in the client, which means that being
together is mechanical and limited to sex. Not always, but in many cases this
kind of service may be not enough. If an escort is unable to accept the
client's otherness, I mean a sex client is not suited to the needs and tastes
of escort then the sex provider herself/himself will push away the sex client.
Of course, regarding the deepening of the social relationship with customers it
is a shortcoming, if an escort is not familiar with anything - just with sex -
so s/he cannot chat up with sex client, who might demand it. Lack of language
skills can also result in failing to get sex clients, so it is advisable to
learn languages in time. Regarding the quality of escort sex service, if an
escort is more busy with satisfying her/his own sexual needs than that of the
sex client, it will have a very negative effect on the performance.
Furthermore, if an escort cannot tolerate sex client’s perversions and fails to
hide her/his disgust, it will also have a negative influence on the quality of
escort service.
We could list
many, many factors on both sides, but the most important ones have been
discussed. Obviously, no escort can be perfect, but they have to strive for
consistency and make escort services as customer-friendly as possible, as sex
clients primarily wants to feel good when paying for escort services.