Exploring the
question of the nature of the inborn escort, we can return to the same
principles and theories several times, but always in a slightly different
perspective. These considerations put different theories in different lights,
either confirming or refuting it. Our current issue is whether there may be an
escort with sense of vocation. Previously, as we have already explored the
topic, the question of a professional-minded escort has already been raised. Is
it possible that an escort enters sexual service career because she has
something extra that specifically drives her to do this job, and she sees the
job rather a vocation than the necessary bad to make money?
Well, it is almost obvious that, as in other
professions, not every escort prostitute is driven by an attitude called sense
of vocation. There are those in this profession who only do it because they
have to make a living somehow, or because they are exposed to the bad
circumstances and cannot break out of the situation from their own power. But
there are certainly some escorts who enjoy giving sex service and strive for
professional development. In order to do this, they practice a lot to improve
their techniques. By the word technique not only manual dexterity is meant, but
all the extra sexual skills that are needed for sexual service sector,
especially if the escort’s main and long-term objectives are success,
recognition, and more profit, as a result of the afore mentioned.
It may be
strange to look at prostitution from this point of view, as most would assume
that being a prostitute is not a dream job. Or if it is, then just because a
lot of money can be made by pursuing it, and if it is done well, a very high
standard of living can be acquired. But if we look deeper into it, is that not
the case with every profession? To be good at something, hard work is needed.
No one is born to be good at anything. We do not even know what we could be
good at, because we need to know our own strengths and abilities to get to know
this. So, in order for an escort to tell that she is good at her profession,
she has to work hard and make effort with commitment. From this point of view,
it seems absolutely realistic that there are some escorts who really want to
work in the sexual service industry and want to pursue a career here. If this
recognition has taken place in the escort, then with self-criticism and
humility, she can develop a strong sense of vocation that will make her more
than other prostitutes and will invest enough attention and work in her
professional development. It is like having someone learn for years to become a
good physician once. From the moment she has recognized the urge and the
willingness to invest in what she would like to become once, then she is on the
right track to realize it. Of course, only if there is enough perseverance and
humility in her. Obviously, as in every profession, these qualities are also
important in the sex industry, as the career opportunity is also given here for
anyone willing to work for it.
All in all, the
great truth is that escort service can be regarded as an occupation in the same
sense as any other one recognized by the social norm. Regardless of how people
usually look at the issue morally, we cannot take away the truth from the
escort profession that is true of any other profession, namely, if one wants to
be good at it, he or she must be able to make himself / herself totally devoted
to the trade. And that doesn't work without professionalism or sense of
vocation.