Balance
in sex. Based on the above, some sort of equilibrium must be found in sex
and its frequency. Sometimes, too much sex can cause sexual dysfunction like
the lack of it or flat and cold sexual life. That is quite important in our
over sexualized times. And then there are the compromises and progress in sex.
Here, I mean, sometimes things must be done that we do not long for, which is
often even painful (for instance anal sex). Sex needs to be talked about in a
relationship without perverted desires silenced or kept in secrets. Maybe if
the aforementioned BDSM and anal sex loving guy admitted to his wife that he
longs for screwing her tied up to the bed for hours, the wife would give in.
Thus, the sexual perversions would be met, and the husband would not cast an
eye towards prostitutes and escorts and would not watch perverse porn in
secret.