Adriana (23) , Stockholm (se) , Kungsholmen escort tjej

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A request to Dave

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Dave,

Since you respond for Sex-tjejer I would like to make a request in regards to moderation of content in the threads. First the website sex-tjejer was developed with the intention to advertise escort ladies and also to be a place with freedom of speech. The website existence is mainly dependent on the purchase of advertisements made by escorts, and not on members opinion. Without our money, there is no platform, no maintenance, no staff (admins), no threads and the last no members.

It is also of my understanding that THIS IS our online workplace, and for this matter the website has the obligation to provide a virtual safe environment for the girls, which is well done to a certain extent. The visitors of the website, are of course a valuable element that makes it one of the most if not the most popular page in Sweden, however I see a clear division and different treatment when it comes to escorts and members (mostly formed by men).

I have addressed this issue before and I am here addressing it again because I would like to request you to review the rules on the thread. I agree with you that this is a place where people have the  freedom to speak their mind and say whatever they want however, the ''speech'' here should be more controlled with some rules.

I believe it is important for the escorts to be part of this site where they do not have to be constantly degraded by men. So here it comes my suggestion regarding  rules:

Contents and comments that are sexists, chavists, and has the intent to degrade, undermine, humiliate, categorize, cause pain to the escorts should be removed, no matter who created the thread.
Members that do this should be warned on the thread, be reminded of the rules and the risk of getting his account deleted.

I am sure Dave, as a man, it is a little bit hard for you, to understand what I mean, and I am sure many members might disagree with this, but I need to admit that it is already hard enough for many of us, escorts to be daily receiving sms and phone calls from abusive men and also to come to this website and see the same kind of content. The content is written sometimes very explicit, but I am very concerned about the implicit too, because IMPLICIT is not less harmful than EXPLICIT, it is just WELL WRITTEN.

I think Sex-tjejer as a leading site, has much more obligations/responsibilities than the other websites besides providing an online platform where people has the freedom to write about the topic, Sex-tjejer has to be seen as an example because you are looked at as main reference, and so I believe this page has also the duty to promote values as collaboration, respect, dignity, appreciation, empathy, equality and fairness. Values that seem to not be clearly stated here, in any form of action.


Please do not take my words as an insult, I am not against the site however, I would like to see here a progress in the threads. All I ask is to review my request.

I am looking forward for a response.

P.S. I am sorry I will always create work, but nothing improves without it.

Adriana





Untitled masculinity - To certain sex buyers!

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Today, I woke up prepared to take my morning walk, when I was about to leave I read a post at sex-tjejer thread, which by the way I am not even allowed to write at because I speak my mind and create too much work. Well my feminist outspoken thoughts seems to upset people, specially the men the sex buyers.

I left the morning with extremely angry because the men, the sex buyers used the threads to spread their androcentric ideas, on how they are above escorts, how they categorize women - the ''girlfriend'' material vs ''escort'' material and where you can find them. In the perspective presented an escort is only good for sex, and not to have a relationship with - at home you need to have the saint good woman and in the streets you need to have the the dirty bad woman.

Ironically the men who claims to be ''different'' than others, to care about working conditions of an escort and also to be nice and gentle also has extreme sexist views on escorts and also do not mind to support a system that abuse women sexually and psychologically. They also think that a good escort is a quiet one, the one that does not speak their mind and just do what they want - sex wise of course.

I declare today my war against this kind of men, this type of animals, that use a tool, to spread prejudice, to categorize women, to suppress and undermine escorts/prostitutes.

While I am here, while I am an escort, I will not be quiet, I will combat and I will speak my mind. I will not allow myself to be categorized unless I say so. I refuse myself to watch chavist men that fail to find a  'good girlfriend', to come to the site and point fingers. We, escorts, need to fight the ignorance, the prejudice and misconceptions that some dick heads insists in reinforce.


whore             uneducated              whore material            greedy

 stupid cunt         bad english speaker               only good for sex

                      gold digger            not a girlfriend material        


Are you upset? Report me again... Ah and keep lying to yourself that you are a good man and model citizen!

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Is there a risk doing oral sex without condom?

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YES- YOU-CAN-CATCH-STD-AND-HIV

 Well there is a risk on everything you do however, risks can be always avoided or let’s say measured. I am sure doing oral sex without condom is something that guys love to give and receive, but it also scare many girls, because even If a man’s penis look clean and nice, you can not guarantee who has or not anything without a test.  Both gender think that a plain funky smell, rashes or warts are STD, but sometimes not. Of course who wants to go down for a fellatio when there is something smelling strange or is  visually scary....



Chocolate meets vanilla

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It is told that opposites attract themselves, and in this spirit I met Mys, my first and very special reviewer, which I never got the change to reveal in details how our meetings unfolded in the last couple of months, and as much as I would love to write about our previous interesting meetings I can not remember with  rich details about every single of them however, I will do write about our latest one.

I met once again Mys a very nice young baby (so cute…I want to bite), 22 years old, responsible and shy guy. Me, a couple of years older,  and let’s say a little shy too.



Support for sex buyers and sellers

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When in Malmö I was approached by KST (Kompetenscentrum sexuella tjänster)  employer, which contacted me with  interest to meet  and to provide any type of help needed. I went there in person, and I talked with Elin, a social worker, that presented to me a little bit of the work at KST, we also talked a little about selling and buying sex and so safety measures.

So, for the sex buyers, KST provide support, specially to the ones with sexual addiction...