SEX-22.

kamadeva · · 0

The importance of sex, and factors affecting sex


In the previous chapters sex was shown in historical context, arriving at the current concept of sex. There were words about the sex and joint industries and people with perverted sexual tendencies.

Except for the distorted forms of sex, it cannot be emphasised enough that sex is indispensable part of a healthy, balanced life. Apart from the fact that today sex has no longer a sacred role in human relationship than it used to, still there are people who try to live through the whole intimacy of sex, trying to make sexual intercourse be about love and not just fuck. There is still a minority for whom losing virginity is an important moment in life.

The sexual revolution of modern society, fortunately has given us freedom of sex and we do not have to feel ashamed if we had more sex partners in life. And we have a choice of who to have sex with because laws protect us from forced sex with others. Unfortunately, it is not the case in other parts of the world. Forced marriage is still common in major societies (India, Myanmar, Arabic countries) and there are religious groups (Mormons), where member are allowed to date and marry only within the community.

Libido and hormones

The sex-related healthy lifestyle - what everyone wants – has a quite a number of conditions to be met. It's the most important to have enough libido. Libido is influenced and formed by thousands and thousands of things. We all know the feeling when the libido is skyrocketing, and we cannot do anything but satisfy the desire somehow. It can be done by masturbation, spousal sex or paid sex with an escort girl. Libido is regulated by hormones. When there is some problem with hormone secretion, it affects libido as well. For example, the female contraceptive pill, which otherwise completely changes the female hormonal balance, may have a side effect that decreases libido. It’s a bit comical because a woman takes birth control pills to enjoy sex without consequences, and this is why sex will be less intense after a while. The libido level may decrease due to serious psychological problems, stress, thyroid gland function, low testosterone and oestrogen levels, lifestyle (poor diet, booze, and drugs), depression, old age etc. As we can see, a healthy life and a healthy sex are in relation with each other, one cannot function without the other.

The change of living conditions in sex

The change in living conditions can change sexual habits. A good example is when someone goes to prison for long years where he can develop homosexual tendencies after a while though he is heterosexual. Of course, sex can be a tool in prison, with which certain goods can be obtained (blowjob for cigarettes), but it also can be a status symbol, which designates the alpha male. We heard juicy gay stories from our grandfathers in the army during the big wars or from boarding schools and fraternity houses, not talking about priests who will be totally perverted due to celibacy and begin to have sex with children.

Sex, in all respects, shapes human, their mind and how their life goes.  If sex is too much or too little, that’s a reason, but the lack of sex also has its consequences.

For whom is sex more important?

And to whom is sex more important? Women or men? According to women, it is as important to them as to men. Men claim the opposite. Just in case, I checked it out. According to statistics, most women are more affectionate therefore they remain faithful even without regular sex. For men it is the opposite. Men tend to have a sexual affair if their sexual life is not satisfying in relationship. As for single women and men, women are better at doing without sex than men.

How to fix sex-problems

The sex-related problems can be treated the same way as other diseases. The mentioned aphrodisiacs and potency enhancers have their counterpart: desire reducers. For example, it was what Michael took when he wanted to stop himself screwing more children. Officially, of course, there are sexual psychologists who treat sexual dysfunction, traumas, aberrations and sexual disorders. A sexologist’s responsibility is to study and explain sex and its issues. A sexual therapeutics gives help to couples if something goes wrong in their sexual lives.

 



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