20. How much can the escort trade and private life be separated? Can an escort have private life?

kamadeva · · 0


The private life of an escort can realize in many ways. One of the most typical is when the escort honestly exposes what she does for a living to both the family and friends. The other possible way is when the escort girl completely secretly does escort services.

Escort trade is very difficult to reconcile with honest private life. One of the reasons for this is the negative judgment of ordinary people about the job. Since the majority of people think that eskorts are simply prostitutes because of their ignorance, openly work as an escort is very difficult because of the stigmatization and condemnation of society. And this is further worsened by the social and religious structure of the country from which the girl comes from. For example, for an escort girl from a religious or radical community it would be almost impossible to get her family and friends to accept the fact that she works as an escort.

A non-honest private life can also be maintained. Most of the escorts do this. A touring escort working abroad is practically impossible to get caught. So when she returns home, the escort can "just simply" isolate her privacy from the sex business because no one knows she works in sex business. It’s another question, however, how she’ll explain her regular trip abroad and the sudden financial boom.

We cannot also ignore the reason why an escort takes sex employment and how often she does it. For example, if a young girl just wants to finance her university studies, and say, she only sells her time to clients every other week, then she’ll have enough time to spend on her private life. Conversely, if we take the example of an escort that wants to set up the future with hard work for years to get a significant amount of money in the shortest possible time, then privacy is bound to be pushed into the background. But that is true of most jobs. The more you work, the less time you’ll have on everything else.

What influences someone to be an escort can be the personality as well. I’ve already mentioned those escorts that will become escort, escort girl escort boy, shemale escort, ladyboys, or transsexual escort because they like to work as an escort, having escort meetings and sex with strangers. For these escort private and public life are the same. Such escorts usually have friends from the escort trade. In this case, privacy is fully compatible with private life, so it is possible to have private life while working as an escort. Here belongs the so-called celebrity escorts (Loredana Jolie, Ashley Dupre, Just Kassandra, Loredana Jolie) whose all life is about the escort trade. Separating private life from sex job therefore is impossible because the escort’s whole life is based on escort work, giving her a sort of life style.

Those escorts who want to separate the sex job from their private life are in a difficult situation, escpecially if they long for a relationship, as it is certainly difficult to find a partner who tolerates her girlfriend’s travelling abroad to date with foreign men. From this aspect, the separation of work from private life is almost impossible without a proper partner. Additionally, it is especially difficult for those escort girls who have become escorts not out of their own will. These escorts cannot, in essence, process the negative experiences that go with the job (problematic clients, constant stress, atrocities during escort meeting, etc.) and turn to drugs, alcohol, and then slowly pass through a personality change. This change takes away all the possibilities of an escort having a sovereign, private life.

Last but not least, the process of separation from the work (if an escort longs for it) always begins with mental issues, and in every case is a trying thing. It is certainly a strong personality that can do that.


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