Since you respond for Sex-tjejer I would like to make a request in regards to moderation of content in the threads. First the website sex-tjejer was developed with the intention to advertise escort ladies and also to be a place with freedom of speech. The website existence is mainly dependent on the purchase of advertisements made by escorts, and not on members opinion. Without our money, there is no platform, no maintenance, no staff (admins), no threads and the last no members.
It is also of my understanding that THIS IS our online workplace, and for this matter the website has the obligation to provide a virtual safe environment for the girls, which is well done to a certain extent. The visitors of the website, are of course a valuable element that makes it one of the most if not the most popular page in Sweden, however I see a clear division and different treatment when it comes to escorts and members (mostly formed by men).
I have addressed this issue before and I am here addressing it again because I would like to request you to review the rules on the thread. I agree with you that this is a place where people have the freedom to speak their mind and say whatever they want however, the ''speech'' here should be more controlled with some rules.
I believe it is important for the escorts to be part of this site where they do not have to be constantly degraded by men. So here it comes my suggestion regarding rules:
Contents and comments that are sexists, chavists, and has the intent to degrade, undermine, humiliate, categorize, cause pain to the escorts should be removed, no matter who created the thread.
Members that do this should be warned on the thread, be reminded of the rules and the risk of getting his account deleted.
I am sure Dave, as a man, it is a little bit hard for you, to understand what I mean, and I am sure many members might disagree with this, but I need to admit that it is already hard enough for many of us, escorts to be daily receiving sms and phone calls from abusive men and also to come to this website and see the same kind of content. The content is written sometimes very explicit, but I am very concerned about the implicit too, because IMPLICIT is not less harmful than EXPLICIT, it is just WELL WRITTEN.
I think Sex-tjejer as a leading site, has much more obligations/responsibilities than the other websites besides providing an online platform where people has the freedom to write about the topic, Sex-tjejer has to be seen as an example because you are looked at as main reference, and so I believe this page has also the duty to promote values as collaboration, respect, dignity, appreciation, empathy, equality and fairness. Values that seem to not be clearly stated here, in any form of action.
Please do not take my words as an insult, I am not against the site however, I would like to see here a progress in the threads. All I ask is to review my request.
I am looking forward for a response.
P.S. I am sorry I will always create work, but nothing improves without it.